It’s difficult to define the nature of today’s geration. It’s the age of instant. Want everything instantly with least efforts. They feel parents are supposed to do everything thing for them. It’s their duty.
But as the child what is their duty? What are they supposed to do? Do they know?
Well we hear o f suicide and suicide attempt done by this generation at an early age. Why is it so? Was there no tension during the earlier times? Well as human everybody from the past had gone thru some or other problems and situation but then why was it different from what we see today?
Who is responsible? As a parent is it we?
Well as an individual I am not so old that I would be called as a person of previous generation but my way of thinking is different from my sons n daughters thaughs.
Well my son isn’t ready to hear the word NO! He thinks he knows and understands everything. Not ready to listen your advice and not even ready to do the day-to-day , routine like bathing and brushing! Well it’s the mobile or the television.
Today’s generation respect just the parent who works as they get the MONEY. Their ATM!
If the mother is an housewife then she has no respect at all. In fact she is the parasite according to them who lives on fathers income according to them. Well these children don’t understand that she remained at home to look after them and the house. If it wasn’t she who took them to hospital when I’ll, playground for physical development, carried them to school and classes they would have not been what they are now. But no! Now as a teenager they think what does a homemaker mother does just the cooking! Now if she goes out anywhere they have Swiggy n what not. What is your use mom? What do you do? You just do cooking and then you are free.
Many homemaker would agree with me. This kind of treatment is given even by husbands. They too forget that She was the one who took all the responsibility during their children’s growing times and they could totally concentrate on their respective careers. But no everyone forgets all this.
This time when the children are of teenage the mother is nearing her 50 year age. This is the time of her life when she needs her family for whom she was always there with her. This is the time she undergo a lot of hormonal changes in her too. The daughter does to some extent understand her but the men in the house just don’t.
It’s very difficult for the mother. At this time she becomes so emotionally dependent that she sometimes forget that every one has their own way of thinking and working, which can result in a lot of disagreement and disappointment and sadness in the household.
Teenagers nearing menopause mother the middle aged father with work tension result in some very disturbing household fights which again is stressful to everybody. At this time only the grandparents are of the age where they too need to see the doctor now and again. And it’s our duty and responsibility. Sometimes we do lose them forever and it’s really very difficult to face the reality.
I lost my father recently so i know it very well. The hamoneys make it further difficult for us!
Now it’s like you are left for yourself. When alone it’s really difficult. You doubt your spouse. You can’t stand them. You are angry on the children as they are living on their terms which you don’t accept and things become more difficult.
At this point of time one should seek medical help immediately. If you have your friends and dear ones in the city please go meet them. Meet them often. Try to reconnect with them. ‘This would work miraculous.
Well we should find our own path. Do exercises, pranayama and try to reconnect. Pen down things what you feel. Let the emotions flow out you’ll be Relieved, and you RELIVE!
Thank you GOD for everything
My mantra.
But as the child what is their duty? What are they supposed to do? Do they know?
Well we hear o f suicide and suicide attempt done by this generation at an early age. Why is it so? Was there no tension during the earlier times? Well as human everybody from the past had gone thru some or other problems and situation but then why was it different from what we see today?
Who is responsible? As a parent is it we?
Well as an individual I am not so old that I would be called as a person of previous generation but my way of thinking is different from my sons n daughters thaughs.
Well my son isn’t ready to hear the word NO! He thinks he knows and understands everything. Not ready to listen your advice and not even ready to do the day-to-day , routine like bathing and brushing! Well it’s the mobile or the television.
Today’s generation respect just the parent who works as they get the MONEY. Their ATM!
If the mother is an housewife then she has no respect at all. In fact she is the parasite according to them who lives on fathers income according to them. Well these children don’t understand that she remained at home to look after them and the house. If it wasn’t she who took them to hospital when I’ll, playground for physical development, carried them to school and classes they would have not been what they are now. But no! Now as a teenager they think what does a homemaker mother does just the cooking! Now if she goes out anywhere they have Swiggy n what not. What is your use mom? What do you do? You just do cooking and then you are free.
Many homemaker would agree with me. This kind of treatment is given even by husbands. They too forget that She was the one who took all the responsibility during their children’s growing times and they could totally concentrate on their respective careers. But no everyone forgets all this.
This time when the children are of teenage the mother is nearing her 50 year age. This is the time of her life when she needs her family for whom she was always there with her. This is the time she undergo a lot of hormonal changes in her too. The daughter does to some extent understand her but the men in the house just don’t.
It’s very difficult for the mother. At this time she becomes so emotionally dependent that she sometimes forget that every one has their own way of thinking and working, which can result in a lot of disagreement and disappointment and sadness in the household.
Teenagers nearing menopause mother the middle aged father with work tension result in some very disturbing household fights which again is stressful to everybody. At this time only the grandparents are of the age where they too need to see the doctor now and again. And it’s our duty and responsibility. Sometimes we do lose them forever and it’s really very difficult to face the reality.
I lost my father recently so i know it very well. The hamoneys make it further difficult for us!
Now it’s like you are left for yourself. When alone it’s really difficult. You doubt your spouse. You can’t stand them. You are angry on the children as they are living on their terms which you don’t accept and things become more difficult.
At this point of time one should seek medical help immediately. If you have your friends and dear ones in the city please go meet them. Meet them often. Try to reconnect with them. ‘This would work miraculous.
Well we should find our own path. Do exercises, pranayama and try to reconnect. Pen down things what you feel. Let the emotions flow out you’ll be Relieved, and you RELIVE!
Thank you GOD for everything
My mantra.
